Self Love & Relationships

I will begin by saying A Healthy Friendship/Relationship should consist of several vital factors in my view of course :) Mutual RESPECT is HUGE for me why?Because I'm a CAPRICORN & we don't play that! Joke. Respect in a relationship means that each person VALUES who the other IS and UNDERSTANDS — and would never challenge — the other person's BOUNDARIES. Vitally important to me! TRUST. Yeah the old T word. It's OK to get a little jealous sometimes — jealousy is a natural emotion & a wasted on but hey to each it's own. But how a person reacts when feeling jealous is what MATTERS. There's no way you can have a healthy relationship if you don't trust each other. If I can't Trust you with My Life My Health My Heart or My Mind lets not even be Friends. I desire Trust even though I really only Trust God.

The confidence in my friend in my partner should be there. HONESTY. Honesty goes hand in hand with Trust. I need to Trust that you honesty have no desire to hurt me or let me down. Be Honest even if it may seem harsh oh well I respect the TRUTH even if the Truth makes me cry. Are we perfect NO? Will there be hurt & let downs ? YES Sir or Maam. But at the beginning and end of the DAY that should not be your Ultimate Goal or Else Holla Back *Wink* Moving Along.......................SUPPORT. >>> Ding Ding Ding!! Support is huge for me I encourage women to Support their MEN soooo much because they really need it Today & Everyday. It's Hard being the Head & Not The Tail Because You Must Lead Even when you aren't in the position to do so. So Support is what I do to the tenth Power. I can take the broken beaten down MAN & Make Him The Next President with what I offer as A Woman building & supporting. True Story :) Support it's not just in bad times that your partner should support you. Some people are great when your whole world is falling apart but can't take being there when things are going right (and vice versa).

In a healthy relationship, your significant other is there with a shoulder to cry on when you find out your Laid Off ,sick, busted & disgusted and to celebrate with you when you get the lead in a play. So in other words through the good Bad & the Ugly.SEPARATE INDIVIDUALS is what makes us unique. In a healthy relationship, everyone needs to make compromises. But that doesn't mean you should feel like you're losing out on being yourself. Be Yourself , but Allow me to be myself to with The Respect Trust & Honesty were good!!