Resentments is bondage

RESENTMENT- is the experience of a negative emotion (anger or hatred, for instance) felt as a result of a real or imagined wrong ...When you have a resentment, a major part of you closes down. You become bitter and less able to express your love.

You lose your aliveness and your joy for life. You put up walls of protection and you make your life more difficult. Letting go of a resentment is not for the benefit of the other person. Letting go of a resentment is for you. When you resent someone, you are saying very forcefully, that the other person is the problem, the cause and the fault. Not you.

You forcefully blame the other person so you don't have to look at yourself. If you looked at yourself, you would have to experience all the hurt from what happened. You would have to feel all the hurt of being not good enough, not worth loving or some other form of not okay. To avoid this hurt, you resent.

The first step in releasing a resentment is to be willing to feel this hurt. Look under the resentment and find the hurt. Find the feelings of being not good enough or not worth loving that you are avoiding. Then be willing to experience them. Cry if you can. Once you are willing to feel this hurt, you no longer need the resentment.

Now notice that if this person was wiser and more aware, then he or she would be able to act very differently, but the person isn't wiser and more aware. This person only has the limited awareness that he or she has.

Notice that this person is doing the very best he or she can with his or her very limited ability. Notice how much this person suffers as a result of his or her limited equipment.

Now ask yourself, Are you willing to forgive this person for not being wiser and more aware? Are you willing to forgive this person for acting consistent with his or her limited ability? Are you willing for forgive this person for the damage that was caused?

Remember that forgiveness is for you, not the other person. Forgiveness is a choice. Let go of your resentment and get on with your life.

WHEN YOU KNOW BETTER YOU DO BETTER GOD BLESS!!

LET IT GO RELEASE THE BAGGAGE & RELEASE THE BONDAGE :)

FREE YOUR MIND!!!!!!!!!!!!! THEIR IS KINGDOM WORK TO BE DONE.

THEIR ARE LEGACIES TO BE BUILT* WINK*

DEEP BREATH MY SITUATION NO LONGER HAS CONTROL OVER ME :) I AM FREE

RESENTMENT FACE :(